Has anyone else realized this also?

It is all the way you present yourself. If you look uneducated or you type in txtspeak, crazy caps or omitting vowels like a 14 year old no one is going to take you seriously or they will ume that you are very immature. And if you come on saying that you were part of an unprotected or slept with 3 guys in 2 weeks with no protection then hell yes it is your fault and you are irresponsible. If you took precautions and still got stuck in a bad position and are acting mature about it you are more likely to get sympathetic answers. That is just my opinion.